A Week Ago

I woke up this morning thinking about where we were just one week ago and how far we’ve come in seven days.

Last Saturday, Cynde was incredibly sick after Friday’s chemo treatment. She couldn’t keep anything down, so she and Pops spent the day in the Emergency Room searching for answers.

There really weren’t any answers that day, just an overzealous doctor who insisted she eat a Saltine cracker. Around midnight, after a frustrating standoff over that poor little cracker, they left exhausted, discouraged, and wondering what came next.

Sometimes these medical journeys have to get worse before they can get better.

Cynde’s angry Tum finally demanded the attention of exactly the right specialists, and that’s what it got. Aside from a couple of bumps along the way, her care has been exceptional. Every day has brought a little more progress, and right now, that’s exactly what we’re celebrating.

I also owe everyone an apology for disappearing after Wednesday’s update. I’m hoping we can all agree that when you don’t hear from me, it’s usually because things are quietly moving in the right direction.

So where are we today?

Cynde is getting stronger.

The TPN has allowed her digestive system to rest, and it seems to be making a real difference. The body wants to heal when we give it the chance.

And sometimes the biggest victories are the simplest ones.

She took a shower.

She’s walking the halls.

She’s sipping tea.

Then this morning they casually told me they were having breakfast together. Naturally, I assumed that meant Pops was enjoying pancakes while Cynde continued her gourmet TPN through her central line.

Nope.

She had scrambled eggs…and an English muffin.

Last weekend, one little cracker seemed impossible.

Today it was eggs and an English muffin.

All of this is about getting her strong enough for the next round of chemo because, in the end, it’s this stubborn cancer that’s causing all of these roadblocks. Her port will be placed on July 9, and chemo is scheduled to begin again on July 10.

I know this all sounds overwhelming, but her medical team continues to reassure us that, as difficult as this has been, none of it is unexpected with this type of cancer.

When I talked with Cynde yesterday, she said something that has stayed with me.

“We can do hard things.”

That’s what she wants everyone to know.

This is hard. And she can do hard things.

So we’re looking ahead to a possible Monday discharge. Home. Healing. One step at a time.

Thank you, as always, for your prayers, your messages, your encouragement, and for walking this road with us.

Happy weekend, dear tribe. ❤️

9 thoughts on “A Week Ago

    1. Amanda and Barry Bloom's avatar Amanda and Barry Bloom

      It was really good to see you briefly, and to give you a hug. Yes, you can do hard things – and you are doing them. We will check in with you next week, when you’re home. Love from both of us.

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  1. Unknown's avatar Deda

    Thank you, Heather. This is reassuring news. We will assume no news is good news and that things are moving in the right direction. I’m sure your days are full. I love all of you!

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  2. Teresa B's avatar Teresa B

    I’m a long time art buddy and I want you to know how very grateful I am for your blog.
    I send Cynde and your beautiful family lots of tenderness and strength.

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  3. Carolyn's avatar Carolyn

    Thank you Heather for sharing and thank you Cynde for allowing us to be part of your journey!
    Cynde, Gary and I send our love to you, Rick and family!
    We ❤️U

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  4. Tracy Livian's avatar Tracy Livian

    Cyndo Yes we’ve seen it before and we will see it again. YOU CAN DO HARD THINGS AND IT WILL PAY OFF!!!! We are sending every ounce of strength to you and big hugs to you Ricko and the Simms family. Heather thank you for keeping us updated!!

    LOVE YOU GUYS ❤️

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